Tuesday 6 August 2013

Reason: How I got interested in Psychology?(part 2)

Continued from Part 1:
http://pratikkirve.blogspot.in/2013/07/reason-how-i-got-interested-in.html

I asked her to wait to check whether she is interested or not. She knew what I wanted to talk as I cleared everything by staring at her. Then she didn't wait. So I came to know that she is not interested. 

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Then instead of trying to get close to her, I started thinking that why didn't she wait? That means why she wasn't interested in me. I ensured we are opposites, all the attention of sir was on me, all the glamour kind of things were with me, then what was the problem? I thought that I need to observe her again. I started observing her again & found that the kind of things I am doing that was ensuring my dumbness, she was also doing that kind of things. That means she is also dumb. That means I had concluded wrong that she is smart.

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So I decided that I will not let this happen with me again. I'll choose smart girl. For my ease I thought I must have some indication to I identify smart girl at one glance. Then I made one conclusion that the girl who does what she says, who makes things happen in her way is the Smart girl. For eg., If we get bored in class & a girl convinces sir to take remaining part on next day, She is Smart girl.


This was my primary assumption. I identified these kind of girls. Then I tried to draw some conclusions on face, body language. But was not getting any conclusion. Then one day I just observed Smart girl with a nice shine in her Smile. I observed same pattern in another Smart girl. So I made a firm conclusion that whoever I find with the shine & the same pattern I will consider them as Smart & others lacking that shine, Dumb.

Then this became my hobby, I started observing friends & family. I went more & more deep into smile and I prepared raw material in the book which I'll be sharing with you from now....